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Robert's avatar

Thank you for this post. I have thought about it a few times since you wrote it last year. Today I learned my first child will be a daughter. Very excited.

Oz's avatar

What a wonderful comment. Wishing you every blessing. I am thrilled for you. Congratulations

Robert's avatar

life update. daughter 1 is happy and healthy 18 mo and the highlight of every day. son 1 joined us this week. while we were at the hospital, I'm told she walked around the house shouting "daddy daddy daddy" all day.

more life updates to come

https://ibb.co/jvXzQg4f

Richard L. Johnson's avatar

Great piece. I too had a son first and a daughter second. The differences and beauties they bring are quite remarkable. My wife is also Mexican and her family’s enormity and pull are immense. I would not trade it for anything, but it is definitely worth noting.

Robert's avatar

sometime back we had two decorators come to our house. on hearing of our growing family, one said a boy and a girl is a blessing. "he [the other decorator] is lucky. he has a son and a daughter. i only have two sons. i don't have anyone for me."

Rohan P.'s avatar

"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved on the condition that they provide something of value."

Yuhp's avatar

Really enjoyed reading this!

Can't wait to be a father one day (god willing) :)

God bless you and your family.

Oz's avatar

inshallah!

Natasha VC's avatar

This piece is high art.

Romanos's avatar

I'm a fairly new dad to a baby girl, and this piece gives me much to chew on, thank you for it!

Oz's avatar

A blessing. Enjoy!

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Mar 28, 2023
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Oz's avatar

20 years working for Laban doesn’t prove the centre of gravity??

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Although interestingly, the commentators do suggest Jacob is punishing for staying away from his parents for so long. That distance represents a failure to honour them