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Henry's avatar

> I think it's fair to say smart women's burden is hardest.

Not really. Having to make a trade-off between a high-flying career and raising a family is surely difficult, but smacks of "my diamond shoes are too tight". Many people don't get the option of doing either.

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Ruxandra Teslo's avatar

you are being silly.

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Henry's avatar

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Am I? I would very much prefer to be a woman at the top end of the intelligence spectrum than a man at the bottom of it. I suspect most people would take the same tradeoff.

The former likely has money or the ability to make it, a career, the prospect of attracting mates for fruitful relationships, and the ability to start a family (alone, if she chooses, as one friend I know is doing). The latter likely has few or even none of these things, and statistically will have worse health and die considerably younger to boot.

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Misha Saul's avatar

I agree on a proper accounting it's tough to be definitive. There are certain assumptions embedded in the piece.

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Henry's avatar

(This is not to discount the considerable misery of childbirth, and perhaps motherhood. But as Nate said I think it's not so straightforward to say who has it harder.)

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